2 Deadly Mistakes to Avoid

People make these 2 common mistakes after breaking up with their partners.

1. They become needy.You have probably seen it many times in drama shows. Yet it happens in real life. After breaking up, they become overwhelmed by anger, frustration and sadness. They become depressed and unable to focus on life. Desperate to get their ex back, they beg, call and pester their ex. They cry. Some of them turn to alcohol and drugs. Some resort to violence. Some threaten their ex with suicide and death. These people try too hard to get the attention of their ex. By doing the actions above, they appear weak to their ex. Even if they managed to get some attention from their ex, there would only be sympathy and fear, not love. Most of the time, their ex would be annoyed, disgusted, intimidated or irritated by their actions.

2. They hook up quickly with others. The people in this category do the opposite. They are egoistic and somewhat vengeful. They are over zealous to show to their ex that they have “moved on”. They want to prove to their ex of their attractiveness. They want to show to their ex that they can live well without them. Hence, they get a partner quickly after the breakup. Some even have multiple partners.Their ultimate aim is to make their ex regret breaking up with them. But their plan has a major flaw. They would appear desperate for attention to their ex. That is another form of weakness. Instead of being regretful, their ex would probably be grateful for not choosing such immature partners.

To get back with your ex, you need a well thought-out action plan. Each step has to be guided so you will not make any fatal mistakes. Your ex should see your strengths, not your weaknesses!