There are a lot of advantages with getting back with your ex. First and  foremost, perhaps the courtship period is faster and simpler. It's already been  done the first time so the 2nd time should be straighter to the point as you  formerly had a relationship together. Getting  back with your ex is nothing new. Folk who were together, broke up for  whatever reasons it could be and after a little time, decide to get back  together again do so for a variety of reasons whether because by being apart,  they found the true value of being together, or by being in a relationship after  the break up, they found out how good the former relationship really was.  Hopefully, getting back with your ex isn't just for a matter of convenience  because as such, that relationship isn't as powerful and if ever, another crisis  comes along, the solution of breaking up will always be played.
My first  love, whose name I will not mention, and I had such a situation wherein we got  together, broke up, got together and then split up again. I have to tell you  that it was really heartbreaking to wreck up with your first love. We got  together in high school after 3 years of wooing. It took me three years from the  start of high school until our junior year for her to answer me.
Ok,  perhaps I'm a romantic at heart but still that was a good year for me. I  presumed I was going to college somewhere else far away after our senior year,  so for everyone's sake, we split up. Then, I made up my mind to go to the same  university she went to and we met up again, and we decided to get together  again. Since we were in university, we had more time to begin to know one  another but somehow, her ma and pa got wind of it, and pressured her to take it  easy. We talked about it one time in class and she wanted to take five or'cool  off' temporarily as she named it. I got fed up and just told her to just break  it off and we probably did. Without knowing how hard it might struck me after, I  felt bad the next year or thereabouts and when I saw her going out with someone  else, I was so incensed that I would have liked to confront the man and had it  not been for my pals who stopped me from doing so, things may have gotten ugly.  It took me a year or thereabouts till I ultimately got over her and by that  point she went to another varsity to end her course.
Getting back with your ex  isn't always the best answer but at least you have that option.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
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