2 Deadly Mistakes to Avoid

People make these 2 common mistakes after breaking up with their partners.

1. They become needy.You have probably seen it many times in drama shows. Yet it happens in real life. After breaking up, they become overwhelmed by anger, frustration and sadness. They become depressed and unable to focus on life. Desperate to get their ex back, they beg, call and pester their ex. They cry. Some of them turn to alcohol and drugs. Some resort to violence. Some threaten their ex with suicide and death. These people try too hard to get the attention of their ex. By doing the actions above, they appear weak to their ex. Even if they managed to get some attention from their ex, there would only be sympathy and fear, not love. Most of the time, their ex would be annoyed, disgusted, intimidated or irritated by their actions.

2. They hook up quickly with others. The people in this category do the opposite. They are egoistic and somewhat vengeful. They are over zealous to show to their ex that they have “moved on”. They want to prove to their ex of their attractiveness. They want to show to their ex that they can live well without them. Hence, they get a partner quickly after the breakup. Some even have multiple partners.Their ultimate aim is to make their ex regret breaking up with them. But their plan has a major flaw. They would appear desperate for attention to their ex. That is another form of weakness. Instead of being regretful, their ex would probably be grateful for not choosing such immature partners.

To get back with your ex, you need a well thought-out action plan. Each step has to be guided so you will not make any fatal mistakes. Your ex should see your strengths, not your weaknesses!

How He Managed to Get Love Back

It happened to one of my male friends. He had been dating his girlfriend since high school. His girlfriend was a few years junior than him. Having dated her for many years, he considered their relationship stable.

His girlfriend graduated from college and found a job. She became busy with work and they dated less often. At first, my friend thought it was normal since both of them were occupied with work. Then, his girlfriend started to avoid his calls. Suspecting that something might be wrong, he confronted his girlfriend. He wanted to know the reason for her cold attitude towards him.

His girlfriend was dating someone else! She wanted a breakup with him. He could not believe that their long term relationship was so fragile. The worst part was his rival was better looking, owned a luxury car and had a high paying job.

My friend was devastated. He started to look for ways to get his girlfriend back. He tried calling his girlfriend everyday. He sent flowers and gifts to her. He waited for her at her home and office. However, it seemed the harder he tried, the more determined his girlfriend wanted a breakup.

Desperate to win back his girlfriend, my friend approached me for help. I shared with him my experience, and with the tips I provided, he got his girlfriend back in less than two months. They are happy now and are even planning to get married.

What exactly did my friend do to get his ex back? Why was his initial plan so wrong? What tips did I give to my friend that worked like a miracle?

Getting back with your ex is not difficult, if you know what to do and what mistakes to avoid. Take the first step and get back with your ex now!

Top 3 Reasons to Get Back with your Ex

1. You are deeply in love. You are head over heels, hopelessly and madly in love with your ex. You miss and think about your ex all the time. There is no room in your life for anyone else except your ex. You want only your ex.

2. You want to save your marriage. You do not want a divorce. A divorce is painful. It hurts you and your immediate family members, especially your children.

3. You want to mend a broken relationship. It could be due to lack of understanding, negligence or unhappy incidents that caused the breakup. Whatever it was, there is room to improve and you want to make up with your ex.

Getting Back with Your Ex : Not the Best Answer But is Always an Option

There are a lot of advantages with getting back with your ex. First and foremost, perhaps the courtship period is faster and simpler. It's already been done the first time so the 2nd time should be straighter to the point as you formerly had a relationship together. Getting back with your ex is nothing new. Folk who were together, broke up for whatever reasons it could be and after a little time, decide to get back together again do so for a variety of reasons whether because by being apart, they found the true value of being together, or by being in a relationship after the break up, they found out how good the former relationship really was. Hopefully, getting back with your ex isn't just for a matter of convenience because as such, that relationship isn't as powerful and if ever, another crisis comes along, the solution of breaking up will always be played.

My first love, whose name I will not mention, and I had such a situation wherein we got together, broke up, got together and then split up again. I have to tell you that it was really heartbreaking to wreck up with your first love. We got together in high school after 3 years of wooing. It took me three years from the start of high school until our junior year for her to answer me.

Ok, perhaps I'm a romantic at heart but still that was a good year for me. I presumed I was going to college somewhere else far away after our senior year, so for everyone's sake, we split up. Then, I made up my mind to go to the same university she went to and we met up again, and we decided to get together again. Since we were in university, we had more time to begin to know one another but somehow, her ma and pa got wind of it, and pressured her to take it easy. We talked about it one time in class and she wanted to take five or'cool off' temporarily as she named it. I got fed up and just told her to just break it off and we probably did. Without knowing how hard it might struck me after, I felt bad the next year or thereabouts and when I saw her going out with someone else, I was so incensed that I would have liked to confront the man and had it not been for my pals who stopped me from doing so, things may have gotten ugly. It took me a year or thereabouts till I ultimately got over her and by that point she went to another varsity to end her course.

Getting back with your ex isn't always the best answer but at least you have that option.